Venus in the houses

venusThe House of Venus in your natal chart shows the sphere of life in which you need to relate to others. It is the House that you seek to harmonize during your life. It is very important to know that Venus’s influence is increased in the 2nd House and the 7th House.

Venus in the 1st House

home1These people are  likable, magnetic, attractive and charming. They tend to attract others to them quite readily and rarely come on too strong or aggressively. Negative expressions of this position include a superficial charm and two-faced, passive-aggressive behavior. The need to be liked by others might lead to feelings of resentment or general unrest. They  have a deep appreciation for art. Love life is very important to them, and they  feel a lack if they have no partner in  life, and  enjoy taking the initiative once they are comfortable with a partner.

Venus in the 2nd House

home2Tangible expressions of love and affection are  very important to them. Their tastes are “simply extravagant”, well-defined and something they are proud of. They are often hedonistic and overly attached to winning admiration from a partner. Their erogenous zones are neck and upper chest. They generally don’t jump into a new relationships. Ideal partner for them is a partner who makes them feel safe and secure. They have strong values and others will find it hard to sway them in this area. Complex or mysterious partners are not as intriguing to you as simple and genuine ones.

Venus in the 3rd House

home3They  are verbally expressive and aim to be tactful. They easily win others over with  words. They readily give out compliments. They are generally a very good mediators, aiming to settle arguments quickly. They have a mischievous side and their desire to be tactful and polite with others doesn’t always succeed. They often engage in a lot of mind games and others might eventually find out that they don’t  mean what they say. They value mental stimulation and frequent changes of everything  in their  love relationships.

Venus in the 4th House

home4These people seek balance, beauty, harmony and peace in your home. They are often attracted to luxury or quality items in the home and they often have an eye for interior decorating. Their love is decidedly sentimental and they show their  affection through nurturing and displays of sympathy. They don’t give their hearts out easily, but when they do they do it with great emotion. It’s easy for them to become attached to a partner and possibly smothering or overly dependent if they  are not careful.

Venus in the 5th House

home5They  are in love with love, playful, sensual and amorous.  They thrive on romantic attention. It is easy and natural for them to always have a crush or romantic interest.  It keeps them young at heart! They  are sensuous and enjoy indulging in the pleasurable senses. They just enjoy surrounding themselves  with beautiful art and music. There is a touch of the dramatic in them when it comes to love and sex. They are quite loyal to their partners and  are both charming and easily charmed. It’s also easy to turn their  head. They are very  warm, fun and playful dates.

Venus in the 6th House

home6Their expressions of love and affection are practical and helpful. They love to be  of service to a partner. While they may not be flowery or showy when it comes to expressing love, they show love by their availability, rendering services and  doing practical things for a loved ones. They  are often talented at design work with the goal of finding order and harmony in everything. They might pass up on true love opportunities in favor of relationships that serve a practical purpose in their life. Selling themselves short is something that keeps them from going after what and who they want.

Venus in the 7th House

home7They just live for relationships. They hate to be alone. Harmony is most important to them, so they will attempt to dominate a lover. They are a peacemakers and tend to achieve a balanced, harmonious relationships. They need to be  careful not to bend over backwards just to keep the peace. They are extremely attractive, agreeable, and charming. They tend to quickly enter into partnerships, perhaps too quickly and neither equipped nor prepared for the responsibilities. In some cases, there can be a shallow or materialistic interest in partners. Their hips and lower back are erogenous zones for them.

Venus in the 8th House

home8They seek for intensity in their love relationships, so that casual encounters are not their games. They are easily bored with mechanical interactions between partners. They also fear being vulnerable in love and they often control their emotions in youth. That is why they are often jealous and possessive in love. They love wholeheartedly and expect all-consuming, total devotion and attention in return. Passion a healing force in their life. They are attracted to all that is taboo, hidden, forbidden and find beauty in the broken, disenchanted, obsessed and passionate. People with this position might make a business out of love, romance, and eroticism.

Venus in the 9th House

home9They tend to attract people of different cultural backgrounds. They are attracted to a partners with a sense of adventure. They are not e clingy and  expect a certain amount of freedom in a partnerships. They want to feel like they are growing as an individuals. They  won’t be happy in a relationship that is restrictive or confining. They appreciate a lover who is enthusiastic and not afraid to have a good time. They have to beware of a tendency for dissatisfaction with what they have, as the tendency to think that the “grass is greener” elsewhere can keep them from enjoying or developing what they have.

Venus in the 10th House

home10Others tend to respect them for their charming manners. They have many admirers, although some of these are admirers from afar. There is an aura about them that is charming yet strangely distant. They often  have a great need to be recognized or admired for their charm, beauty or loving manner, but should be careful not to become too wrapped up in what others think of them. They  might come across as phony or superficial. Some people with this position are “married” to their work . They are great  at making contacts and organizing social events.

Venus in the 11th House

home11The friendship level of their relationships needs to be genuine in order for them to sustain romantic interest. They often tend to focus on a person’s unique qualities. Their  relationships must possess some kind of unconventional element in order to keep their interest. Calves and ankles are  erogenous zones for them. These people  often meet lovers through group activities. Although they value friendships and group affiliations. They might jump into friendships without considering the responsibilities they might entail.

Venus in the 12th House

home12They are  romantic . They are not the best at defining their boundaries – where your needs and your partner’s needs separate . They can get hurt in love rather easily. They  are attracted to people from all walks of life, finding a partners who has an unusual backgrounds or quirky personality. They often feel at the beginning that their  love won’t be appreciated or reciprocated. They can be quite mysterious to others because their  romantic needs are kept hidden. Although they are  drawn to relationships that are unusual, secret, challenging and unequal. Because Venus represents attraction, and the twelfth house is associated with the feet, their feet are erogenous zones!